Mulaima Museli

Reasons Why We Don't Own Anything in This Life By Museli Mulaima Have you ever wondered what you truly own in this life? What are the things that you can claim as yours, and what are the things that you merely borrow or rent? In this blog post, I will challenge the common notion of ownership and show you why we don't own anything in this life. What is ownership? Ownership  is the state or fact of having exclusive rights and control over something. It implies that you have the power to use, dispose, or transfer something as you wish. Ownership also implies that you have the responsibility to take care of something and protect it from harm or loss. But how do we acquire ownership ? How do we know that something belongs to us? The answer is not so simple. In most cases, we rely on social conventions, legal systems, or moral principles to determine ownership . For example, we may say that we own a piece of land because we have a title deed, or we own a car because we have a regist...

Introduction Proverbs are short and memorable sayings that express a truth or a lesson. They are often based on common sense, experience, or observation. Proverbs can be found in many cultures and languages, and they can offer valuable insights and guidance for life. In this blog post, I will share with you some proverbs that I have collected from various sources. These proverbs are about family, money, sex, success, and more. I hope they will inspire you and make you think. Family > It is still a mystery how one father can feed seven children. But seven children cannot feed one father. This proverb reminds us of the sacrifices and responsibilities that parents have for their children. It also warns us of the ingratitude and selfishness that children may have for their parents. We should always appreciate and honor our parents, and not neglect them when they are old and needy. > Never plant thorns on someone's path. Your children may take that route barefooted one day. This p...

Life is full of choices and consequences. Some choices are wise and lead to happiness and success. Others are foolish and lead to misery and failure. In this blog post, I will share with you five foolish things that you should never do in your life. These are based on my own experience and observation, and I hope they will help you avoid some common pitfalls and regrets. 1. Never talk about your dreams to anyone Dreams are precious and personal. They are the fuel that motivates you to pursue your goals and passions. However, not everyone will understand or support your dreams. Some people may mock, discourage, or even sabotage your dreams. That's why you should never talk about your dreams to anyone, unless they are trustworthy and supportive. Remember, a fish with its mouth shut avoids the hook. 2. Never get too involved in other people's problems It's good to be compassionate and helpful to others. However, you should not get too involved in other people's problems, e...

Lessons from the Chicken-Eagle Story Do you ever feel like you don't fit in or aren't reaching your full potential? Maybe you feel stuck in your own created limits. If so, the chicken-eagle story can show you the importance of knowing yourself and reaching your true potential. Once upon a time, a man found an eagle's egg and put it in a hen's nest. The egg hatched, and the eagle grew up thinking it was a chicken, doing chicken things. It never knew it was different or had a greater purpose. One day, the eagle saw a beautiful bird flying high and asked its friend, "Who is that?" "That's the eagle, the king of the birds," the friend replied. "We're chickens; we belong to the earth." Accepting this, the eagle never questioned its identity again, living and dying as a chicken without realizing its true potential. Lesson This story teaches us that our beliefs and surroundings can limit us. We might not know who we truly are or what we...

Respect is not something that you can demand from others. It is something that you have to earn by your actions and attitude. Respect is also something that you have to give to yourself first, before you can expect it from others. If you don't respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? In this blog post, I will share with you 11 ways to respect yourself and boost your self-esteem. These are simple but powerful steps that you can take to improve your relationship with yourself and others. 1. Stop looking for who is not looking for you. One of the most common ways that people disrespect themselves is by chasing after people who don't care about them. Whether it is a romantic interest, a friend, or a family member, if someone is not looking for you, stop looking for them. You are wasting your time, energy, and emotions on someone who does not value you. Instead, focus on the people who do look for you, who do care about you, and who do appreciate you. These are th...

Country music is a genre that tells stories through melodies and lyrics, evoking a range of emotions in the listeners. In 2024, a new country music album will be released that will make you feel the highs and lows of love, the joys and sorrows of heartbreak, and the challenges and opportunities of self-discovery. The album is 'EX-LOVER (DELUXE)', by Museli Mulaima, an upcoming singer and songwriter from Zambia. A Story in Every Song 'EX-LOVER (DELUXE)' consists of 15 songs, each one adding to the overall plot of love's twists and turns. From the passionate confessions in 'My Love For You' to the sad realizations in 'You Don’t Love Me Anymore,' Mulaima creates a mosaic of emotions that reflects the common experiences of love and loss. A Feeling in Every Note The album's genre, country, is the ideal medium for Mulaima's storytelling. The guitars and vocals create a cozy and intimate mood, allowing listeners to feel the emotions conveyed in each...

We all want to live a happy and fulfilling life, but sometimes we get in our own way by doing things that sabotage our happiness. As we enter a new year, it's a good time to reflect on what we can change to improve our well-being and achieve our goals. In this blog post, I will share with you seven things to stop doing in 2024 for a happier life. 1. Stop spending time with the wrong people The people you surround yourself with have a huge impact on your mood, energy, and self-esteem . If you spend time with people who are negative, toxic, or unsupportive, you will feel drained, unhappy, and insecure. On the other hand, if you spend time with people who are positive, uplifting, and supportive, you will feel energized, happy, and confident. True friends stand by you in good and bad times, and they inspire you to be the best version of yourself. So, in 2024, stop spending time with the wrong people and choose your friends wisely. Spend more time with people who value you, respect you...

How the Cell Phone is Killing Us Slowly We all love our cell phones. They are convenient, versatile, and indispensable. We use them for everything: communication, entertainment, information, education, work, and more. But do we ever stop to think about the cost of this convenience? Do we ever consider how the cell phone is killing us slowly? The Cell Phone is Killing Our Devices The cell phone is so powerful that it has replaced many of the devices that we used to rely on. It has killed the landline, the television, the computer, the clock, the camera, the radio, the flashlight, the mirror, and more. We no longer need these separate devices, because the cell phone can do it all. But what are we losing in the process? We are losing the diversity, the quality, and the joy of using different devices for different purposes. We are losing the satisfaction of owning and maintaining our own gadgets. We are losing the opportunity to learn new skills and explore new possibilities. The Cell Phon...

7 Harsh Truths About School That Nobody Wants To Know School is supposed to be a place where we learn, grow, and prepare for our future. But is it really doing that? Or is it holding us back from pursuing our true passions and potential? In this blog post, I will share with you seven harsh truths about school that nobody wants to know, but everyone will accept sooner or later. 1. School is stopping you from pursuing your dreams How many times have you heard someone say, "I wish I could do what I love, but I have to study for this exam"? Or, "I have a great idea, but I don't have time to work on it because of school"? School is forcing you to be good at plenty of irrelevant subjects that have nothing to do with your dreams. Instead of encouraging you to explore your interests and talents, school is making you conform to a standardized curriculum that does not suit your individual needs and goals. 2. School has nothing to do with making a lot of money Many people ...

Applying for the Teveta Bursary: A Step-by-Step Guide Are you a Zambian citizen with aspirations for technical or vocational education and training (TEVET)? If so, the TEVET bursary might be your key to pursuing your goals, courtesy of the Ministry of Technology and Science (MoTS). ​This financial aid program is for the 2026 academic year and aims to assist vulnerable students. The MoTS TEVET Bursary covers the following key areas: ​Tuition fees (100%) paid directly to the training provider. ​Boarding fees, particularly for rural institutions (to those that deserve boarding), paid directly to the training provider. ​Examination fees (100%) paid directly to the training provider. ​🎯 Application Deadline ​All applications must be submitted online. The closing date is Friday, 19th December, 2025. Eligibility Criteria Before embarking on your Teveta bursary application journey, ensure you meet these essential criteria: ​Must be a Zambian citizen and in possession of a Green National Regis...

In a recent Episode of Your Money Briefing by The Wall Street Journal, J.R. Whalen and personal finance reporter Joe Pinsker delved into the intricate relationship between salary increases and job satisfaction. The episode discussed a fascinating survey by financial services company Empower, revealing that, on average, people believe they would need a whopping 50% raise to achieve happiness and reduce stress in the workplace. The Quest for Happiness and the 4% Reality Employers, responding to the competitive job market, plan to increase non-union employees' pay by around 4%, according to a survey by consulting firm Mercer. While a 4% raise is undoubtedly appreciated, it falls far short of the 50% threshold identified by the survey respondents. Breaking Down the Numbers The survey, which considered respondents across various income brackets, found that individuals consistently expressed a desire for more than what they currently earned. Even high earners with a median income of $2...

Dressing Down Tradition: Kenya's Parliament Bans Kaunda Suits and Sparks Controversy In a surprising move, the Speaker of Parliament, Moses Wetangula, declared that Kaunda suits, along with traditional African attire, were no longer welcome within the hallowed chambers of Kenya's parliamentary building. This prohibition extends even to Kenyan President William Ruto, known for frequently donning the distinctive safari jacket and matching trousers on official occasions. The Kaunda suit, named after the late Zambian President Kenneth Kaunda, has gained popularity among the political elite in Kenya, becoming a symbol of political influence. Characterized by its short-sleeved design and often worn without a tie, the suit carries a legacy inspired by President Kaunda's fashion choices. The decision to ban the Kaunda suit was announced on Tuesday by Speaker Wetangula, citing emerging fashion trends that purportedly posed a threat to the established parliamentary dress code. Accord...

Country Music: A Timeless Tapestry of Stories and Melodies Country Music: A Timeless Tapestry of Stories and Melodies Published on November 25, 2023 by Museli Mulaima, aged 23, living in Zambia. Country music, deeply rooted in the cultural fabric of the United States, is more than just a genre—it's a storyteller that weaves tales through captivating melodies. Origins and Evolution: Country music's journey began in the rural areas of the Southern United States, blending folk traditions, blues, and gospel music. Pioneers like Hank Williams and the Carter Family laid the groundwork for a genre that would soon capture the hearts of listeners worldwide. Stories in Every Note: What sets country music apart is its commitment to storytelling. The lyrics vividly portray everyday life, love, heartbreak, and the human experience. Artists like Johnny Cash and Dolly Parton h...

What is Zambia? Zambia is a landlocked country in southern Africa, celebrated for its diverse landscapes, wildlife, and iconic Victoria Falls. Lusaka is its capital and it shares borders with eight neighboring countries. Zambia is known for national parks like South Luangwa and Kafue, making it a popular destination for safari enthusiasts. Independence from British rule was achieved in 1964 and the nation is recognized for its stability. The Zambezi River flows through Zambia, contributing to its natural beauty, and the country is home to various ethnic groups, adding to its cultural richness. Welcome to Zambia – a land that dances to the rhythm of untamed nature and pulsates with the vibrant heartbeat of Africa! Buckle up for an exhilarating journey through this hidden gem, where every corner unveils a new facet of breathtaking beauty. Victoria Falls: Brace yourself for the thunderous roar and misty embrace of Victoria Falls , one of the Seven Natural Wonders of the World. As the migh...