Mulaima Museli

Tradition or Transaction? The Evolving Debate Over Lobola in Zambia In Zambia, weddings are far more than a union between two individuals; they are vibrant, weekly celebrations of cultural heritage. Whether through traditional ceremonies or modern Western-style events, the heartbeat of these celebrations often centers on Lobola (or insalamu), the traditional bride price. However, as of late 2025, a serious debate has taken hold across the nation. What was once a sacred symbol of gratitude and family unity is increasingly criticized as a commercial transaction that places an exhausting financial burden on young couples. The Financial Strain on Youth For many young men, the rising cost of Lobola has made the dream of marriage feel financially out of reach. Current rates frequently range from $1,000 to $5,000, with some families demanding as much as K100,000 ($4,000+). Eddie Zulu, a resident of Lusaka, captures the frustration shared by many: " The bride price is just too expensive t...

The Secret Social Life of Kids with Glasses The moment a child gets their first pair of glasses is a milestone. As parents, we usually feel relief - finally, the headaches will stop and the whiteboard at school will come into sharp focus. We worry about the practicalities: Will they break them? Will they lose them? But for the child walking through the school gates on that first day wearing frames, the concerns are entirely different. They aren't worried about visual acuity. They are worried about identity. Are they suddenly "the smart kid"? Are they "uncool"? Decades of research, including pivotal studies by developmental psychologists like Francine C. Jellesma, confirms what many of us suspected: glasses do change perceptions. They change how peers see your child, and crucially, how your child sees themselves. Here is a look at the psychology behind pediatric eyewear, and how we can help kids navigate the social blur. The "Einstein" Halo Effect (How ...

Why That "Lucky Ticket" is Just a Tax on the Poor? Mwebantu, greetings. We need to have a serious family meeting. You know how it is - you are walking through town, maybe by the bus station or the mall and you see those bright colors. The signs are shouting: "WIN BIG!" "JACKPOT!" You look at the coins in your pocket and you think, "Iye, if I just win this ka money, my life is sorted. No more nkongole, I’ll buy a farm, maybe a Land Cruiser and just relax." It’s a sweet dream, isn’t it? We have all been there. But today, we are going to look behind the curtain. We are going to look at the facts - real facts, not stories from the bar! About what the lottery actually is. And I’m telling you, what we found will make you hold your wallet tight.

When Snacks Fly to You: My Late-Night Termite Hunt 🐜🥢 Have you ever been sitting in your room late at night, stomach growling, wondering what to eat? Usually, that’s when you start thinking about cooking or maybe buying something. But tonight, dinner decided to fly right to me . I was minding my own business when buzz a single winged termite flew past my head. A few seconds later, a second one appeared. For some people, that’s just insects getting inside. But for me? That was a notification from nature saying, "Dinner is served!" The Hunt with the Cup 🏆 I knew exactly what was happening. The rains had done their job, and the swarm was out. I didn't waste a second. I grabbed the nearest tool I could find a simple cup and headed outside. The scene was chaotic in the best way possible. The flying party was in full swing around the security light. They were everywhere! It wasn't a struggle; it was a harvest. I was scooping them up, and they were practically diving into...

Enough is Enough": Lusaka Lawyer Sues Airtel Zambia Over Persistent Poor Network Lusaka lawyer and businessman, Simon Mwila. In a move that echoes the silent frustrations of thousands of Zambians, one Lusaka lawyer has decided to take a stand. Simon Mwila, a lawyer and businessman, has officially filed a lawsuit against Airtel Zambia in the Lusaka Magistrate Court, turning a common complaint into a legal battle. The core of his argument? Poor network services. In his statement of claim, Mr. Mwila alleges breach of contract and negligence. He cites persistent, erratic network failures that have made Airtel’s voice, messaging, and internet services unreliable, despite him being a fully paid-up subscriber. More Than Just a Dropped Call For many, a bad network is an irritation. For a professional, Mr. Mwila argues, it’s a disaster. His claim highlights that the network outages, which he dates back to October 2025, have led to a cascade of real-world damages: Loss of income Missed busi...

Introduction The world of computing stands at a precipice, ready for a revolutionary shift. For decades, we’ve meticulously refined the manipulation of bits – those 0s and 1s that power our digital universe. But what if we could tap into the mind-bending potential of quantum mechanics? This is where Google Quantum AI steps in, pushing the boundaries of computation and ushering us into a new era. Understanding the Quantum Leap Forget the familiar confines of binary. Quantum computing harnesses the bizarre yet captivating principles of quantum mechanics, including superposition and entanglement. These concepts allow quantum computers to perform calculations that are simply unattainable for even the most powerful classical machines. It’s a leap as significant as going from a bicycle to a spaceship—a fundamentally different way of solving problems.   Why the Fuss About Quantum? The applications of quantum computing promise to be transformative and far-reaching. Consider these possibili...

Hello! I'm excited to share my latest album, Sad No More (Remastered) , a collection of heartfelt songs that delve into resilience, love, and the journey of overcoming life's challenges Each track has been carefully remastered to bring you a richer, more immersive sound experience, so you can truly feel the emotions in every note. Album Highlights: Sad No More (Remastered) – The title track sets the tone with its uplifting message, turning sadness into strength. Beautiful Things (Remastered) – A reminder of life’s little beauties that bring joy, even in tough times Lover Boy (Remastered) – A playful tune capturing the spirit of love and affection. Sunshine After Rain (Remastered) – Celebrating the light that comes after every storm. Heartbreak Has No Medicine (Remastered) – A ballad on the timeless theme of heartbreak and healing. A Great Lesson (Remastered) – Reflecting on life’s lessons and the wisdom gained from them. Rays of Resilience (Remastered) – A closing trac...

Adapt or Disappear: Lessons from Kodak and Beyond Remember Kodak ? Back in 1997, Kodak was a giant. It had around 160,000 employees, and an incredible 85% of the world's photography was captured using Kodak cameras. Kodak was photography. Yet, as mobile cameras started to rise, Kodak didn’t keep up. In what felt like the blink of an eye, they went from being the king of the hill to completely out of the market. Kodak went bankrupt, and all those employees lost their jobs. This story isn’t just about Kodak ; it’s a cautionary tale about what happens when you fail to change with the times. Kodak isn't alone. Think about other big names from the past: HMT (Watches) Bajaj (Scooters) Dyanora (TVs) Murphy (Radios) Nokia (Mobile Phones) Rajdoot (Bikes) Ambassador (Cars) These weren’t companies making bad products. They were the best at what they did for a while. The world didn’t leave them behind because they were bad; it left them behind because they didn’t change when the world c...

The History of Lusaka: From Ancient Settlement to Modern Capital Lusaka, the capital city of Zambia, is a bustling metropolis known for its vibrant culture and economic significance. But behind its modern skyline and lively streets lies a deep and fascinating history that spans over a millennium. From its early settlements to its rise as Zambia's political heart, Lusaka's journey is one of transformation, resilience, and growth. Early Settlements: The Roots of Lusaka The earliest evidence of human settlement in the area now known as Lusaka dates back to the 6th century AD. However, it wasn't until the 11th century that the first known settlements began to take shape. By the 17th or 18th century, the Lenje and Soli peoples had established themselves in the region, laying the cultural and social foundations that would define the area for centuries. Lusaka's name is derived from Chief Lusaaka, a local Lenje chief whose influence was instrumental in the region's early d...

Writing Using a Computer In the age of digital communication, writing or typing using a computer has become an essential skill for most people around the globe. Whether for professional, educational, or personal purposes, the keyboard is now our gateway to expressing ideas, sharing information, and communicating with others. This blog post delves into the art and science of writing on a computer, exploring its benefits, challenges, and best practices. The Benefits of Typing on a Computer Typing on a computer offers several advantages over traditional handwriting or other methods of text input: Speed and Efficiency: Typing allows for faster input of text compared to writing by hand. For professionals, students, and creatives, this speed can translate into enhanced productivity, whether drafting documents, coding, or writing a novel. Editing and Formatting Ease: With a computer, making changes to a document is straightforward. The ability to copy, paste, delete, and rearrange text with...

Embracing Good Health: A Journey to a Better You Good health is more than just not being sick—it's about thriving in every aspect of life. It’s about waking up feeling energized, having a clear mind, a joyful heart, and the strength to tackle whatever the day brings. But how do we get there? What does it really mean to be healthy in today’s world? Let’s dive into what good health truly is and how we can make it a part of our everyday lives. 1. What Does Good Health Really Mean? When we talk about good health, we're not just talking about avoiding colds or staying out of the hospital. It’s about feeling your best, physically, mentally, and emotionally. It’s about having the energy to do the things you love and the peace of mind to handle life’s ups and downs. Good health is a balance between four key areas: Physical Health : This is where most of us start when thinking about health. It’s about eating nourishing foods that fuel our bodies, staying active, getting enough sleep, an...

Nestled in the picturesque town of Livingstone , Zambia, the Livingstone Institute of Business and Engineering Studies (LIBES) stands as a prominent educational institution. Situated just 4 km from the town center, LIBES offers a unique blend of academic excellence and cultural enrichment in Zambia's tourist capital.

A Step-by-Step Guide Writing is an essential skill that can enhance your personal and professional life. Whether you’re a student , a professional , or simply someone who loves to write, improving your writing skills can significantly enhance your ability to communicate effectively . This comprehensive guide provides practical steps and tips to help you refine your writing abilities. 1. Understand the Basics of Writing Before diving into advanced techniques, it’s essential to have a solid understanding of the basic elements of writing. 2. Grammar and Punctuation Grammar and punctuation are the foundation of clear writing. Misplaced commas, incorrect verb tenses, and other grammatical errors can obscure your message. Here are some resources and tips to help you master grammar and punctuation: Grammar Guides: Books like “ The Elements of Style ” by Strunk and White or online resources like Grammarly can be invaluable. Practice Exercises: Websites such as Purdue OWL offer exercis...

Hello, dear readers! I'm excited to share with you a personal journey with an innovative platform that's not only rewarding but also intellectually stimulating – the Liseli Decision Lab . This mobile app is more than just a tool; it's a community of thinkers and earners.

Simple Steps for Positive Impact In today's interconnected world, being a good citizen extends beyond just obeying laws and paying taxes. It's about contributing positively to your community, engaging with others respectfully, and fostering a sense of shared responsibility. Here are some practical steps to help you become a better citizen:

Exploring the Rich History of the San Tribe In the heart of Southern Africa, the expansive and arid Kalahari Desert is home to the San people, also known as Bushmen. With a history that stretches back thousands of years, the San are one of the oldest and most enduring cultures on the planet. Their way of life, deeply intertwined with the rhythms of the desert, continues to fascinate anthropologists, historians, and travelers.

A Tale of Ambition and Betrayal On a crisp autumn day, October 29, 1618, the illustrious life of Sir Walter Raleigh, the famed explorer and adventurer, met a tragic end at the Palace of Westminster. Under the orders of King James I, Raleigh was beheaded, marking the culmination of a life filled with ambition, exploration, and political intrigue. Raleigh's downfall was rooted in the complex and often treacherous politics of early 17th-century Europe. An adventurer and favorite of Queen Elizabeth I, Raleigh's fortunes changed drastically with the ascension of King James I. Initially imprisoned in the Tower of London for his involvement in a plot against James, Raleigh's release came with the condition that he would seek to find the legendary city of El Dorado and its untold riches. This expedition, however, would seal his fate. During his ill-fated quest in South America, Raleigh's actions inadvertently ignited tensions between England and Spain. His men attacked a Spanis...