Intro
Hi, I am Museli Mulaima, and I have been working in the corporate world for over 10 years. I have learned a lot of valuable lessons along the way, and I want to share some of them with you today. In this blog post, I will tell you about three mistakes you should never make at your workplace, and how to avoid them.
Mistake 1: Thinking your colleagues are your friends
One of the biggest mistakes you can make at your workplace is thinking that your colleagues are your friends. They are not. They are just doing a job, and they have their own interests and agendas. When push comes to shove, they will save their skin and push you under the bus. They will not hesitate to take credit for your work, gossip about you behind your back, or sabotage your career. Trust me, I have seen it happen many times.
So, how do you avoid this mistake? The answer is simple: keep your professional and personal lives separate. Don't mix business with pleasure. Don't get too close or too attached to your colleagues. Don't share your personal problems, opinions, or secrets with them. Don't hang out with them outside of work. Don't expect them to support you or stand up for you. Treat them with respect and courtesy, but don't let them into your inner circle. Remember, they are not your friends, they are your co-workers.
Mistake 2: Revealing your personal life to your colleagues
Another mistake you should never make at your workplace is revealing your personal life to your colleagues. Don't tell them your plans, your investments, or your next big move. Only a fool reveals secrets. If you do, you are giving them ammunition to use against you. They will either envy you, judge you, or try to undermine you. They will either copy your ideas, steal your opportunities, or ruin your reputation. They will either mock you, pity you, or resent you. None of these outcomes are good for you.
So, how do you avoid this mistake? The answer is simple: keep your personal life to yourself. Don't brag, don't complain, don't disclose. Don't let your colleagues know what you are doing, what you are thinking, or what you are feeling. Don't let them know your strengths, your weaknesses, or your goals. Don't let them know your income, your expenses, or your savings. Don't let them know your dreams, your fears, or your regrets. Keep your personal life private, and focus on your work.
Mistake 3: Sharing your disagreement with company policy with your colleagues
The third mistake you should never make at your workplace is sharing your disagreement with company policy with your colleagues. Don't criticize, don't complain, don't rebel. Anything you share with your colleagues can and will be used against you. They will either report you, betray you, or distance themselves from you. They will either label you as a troublemaker, a whiner, or a dissident. They will either damage your relationship, your credibility, or your loyalty. None of these outcomes are good for you.
So, how do you avoid this mistake? The answer is simple: keep your disagreement with company policy to yourself. Don't voice your opinions, don't express your feelings, don't show your emotions. Don't argue, don't protest, don't resist. Don't challenge, don't question, don't confront. Keep your disagreement with company policy silent, and follow the rules.
Conclusion
These are the three mistakes you should never make at your workplace, and how to avoid them. By following these tips, you will be able to protect yourself, your career, and your future. You will be able to work smart, work hard, and work well. You will be able to succeed, thrive, and excel. You will be able to achieve your goals, fulfill your potential, and live your dreams.
I hope you found this blog post helpful and informative. If you did, please drop a yes in the comments below. And don't forget to share this blog post with your friends, family, and colleagues. Thank you for reading, and have a great day!
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